5) “What would you do if I kissed you?”

• Initiates role-play
• Can lead to some seriously sexy talk
• Lets her know you like her
• Makes her feel wanted

Let both your imaginations run wild with this one. If you want to make it super clear your intentions, ask something leading. Like “We both try to check into a hotel, but there is only one room left. What do we do?”

That being said, a little kissy talk is a lot more PG than some of these other questions. But some women might be caught off-guard by this somewhat romantic line.

You might make her flush crimson; you might even make her feel a bit embarrassed. But you’ll also get her heart racing. As she replies, her fingers shaking on her phone, she’ll be super excited to keep talking to you.

Why? You’ve been forward enough to show her that you’re interested and that’s exciting. But instead of simply saying “I like you,” you’re asking a question that invites a response. And you’re not asking a lame, “Do you like me?” question. You’re putting her in a position where she can reveal some sexy feelings.

Whatever her steamy answer is, make sure you seize on it and keep the excitement going. Indulge in a bit of role-playing and follow up with more questions, such as:

See how she reacts. If she seems into it, keep going. Ask her about other body parts she’d like you to kiss. In this context, kissy talk can be totally erotic!

6) “What’s the sexiest outfit you own?”

You know what she wants? She wants to impress you. Wants to look good for you. And she wants to feel sexy when she eventually meets you.

As such, this is one of the best questions to ask women while online dating. It gets her talking about her tight-fitting dresses, her high-heels, her short skirts and her low-cut tops. She’ll feel sexy just talking about her wardrobe to you! It will turn her on and it will turn you on too.

She might offer up a few outfits. With any luck, she’ll then ask you which one you’d prefer to see her in. If she doesn’t, take the initiative and tell her which one you’d like to see her in when you meet. Don’t be afraid of being forward; this is what she wants to hear. She wants to know more about your tastes so that she can give you what you want.

This question is better than asking a woman what she’s wearing. More often than not, when a woman is talking to you online, she’ll be wearing sweats or unsexy clothing. And the same goes for her panties. Women don’t typically wear their sexiest lingerie when they’re hanging out at home.

By asking her what she currently has on, you’ll put her in a position to make something up. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing––after all, you’re already engaging in digital foreplay. But the question is kind of played out, anyway.

It’s best to ask her about the hottest thing in her closet. Ask her why she loves wearing it. Does it make her butt look good? Is it see-through? Go ahead and get all the details. This is an awesome way to talk to girls online.

7) “What’s your most X-rated fantasy?”

Forget talking about mere fantasies such as dressing up as a fireman. Crank up the heat, get her all flustered and find out what she really wants. Ask her a question about her most x-rated fantasy.

As I said, the Internet is often an environment in which people feel comfortable sharing their raciest desires. A person’s fantasy isn’t necessarily what they’d actually be willing to do in real life. That’s why it’s a fantasy . Be playful, keep an open mind and offer up an X-rated dream of your own.